When I first tried the "exactfit" it did not work. After recompressing the mov trying to make it smaller to load faster, and shuffling some of the divs and graphics, it now centers when I go to full screen.
I'm going to take this "Owen" mov and recompress and set it up as I did the 8mm movies (HTML video player) to see if it loads any faster. I can't go any less on the video quality. I cannot find anyone on the internet that knows how to make a good quality yet fast loading video at the 640 x 360 size (smallest acceptable size).
Success at last. Apparently the biggest problem I had was using the .m4p extension on my compressed movie. I simply changed it to .flv, and it works perfectly and loads fast on my none Flash Mac system. I don't understand at all. Just read the idea on line and tried it.
Do you have any idea what is going on here? It is not important to me but just curious. I just want it to work.